Engagement Rings vs Wedding Rings: What’s the Difference?

VRAI | April 30, 2025

If you're starting to explore fine jewelry for a proposal or upcoming ceremony, you’ve likely encountered two essential terms: engagement ring and wedding ring. These two rings serve distinct roles in a couple’s love story. VRAI, which specializes in wedding rings and engagement rings featuring VRAI created diamonds, explains the differences in symbolism, design, and tradition that can help you make more confident and intentional choices.

The Purpose and Symbolism

An engagement ring is traditionally given during a proposal. It marks the beginning of a shared commitment and is often worn as a visible sign of that promise.

A wedding ring, sometimes called a wedding band, is exchanged during the marriage ceremony. It symbolizes the continuation of that promise — a daily reminder of union, love, and partnership.

Both rings play a meaningful part in representing different moments in a relationship’s evolution: the engagement ring for the question, the wedding ring for the vow.

Differences in Design

Engagement rings typically feature a center stone — often a diamond — set in a variety of styles, from solitaires and halos to three-stone or bezel settings. These rings are designed to catch light and draw the eye, making them the focal point of the hand.

Wedding rings, on the other hand, are generally simpler in design. Classic bands, pavé-set diamonds, and contour styles that complement the engagement ring are common. That said, many couples now choose wedding rings that feel just as intentional and expressive as their engagement counterparts.

The two are often worn together, with the wedding ring placed closer to the heart (on the inside of the finger) and the engagement ring stacked above it.

The Personal Touch

For longtime fans, the Marquise ring feels more than just aesthetically aligned — it’s emotionally resonant. In past interviews, Gomez has hinted at her affinity for unconventional designs and vintage references. The ring feels like the culmination of those quiet desires: unique, elegant, and deeply personal.

Do You Need Both?

Traditionally, yes — but modern couples are rewriting the rules. Some opt for a single ring that serves both purposes, especially when minimalism or budget is a priority. Others choose to invest in both as a way to honor the journey, from proposal to partnershipl.

Ultimately, there’s no right or wrong answer — only what feels meaningful to you. 

Choosing Rings That Reflect You

Whether you're selecting an engagement ring, wedding ring, or both, the most important factor is that the design speaks to your personal story. From bold solitaires to custom stacks, each ring should feel like a reflection of your values, your style, and your future together.

How To Create A Matching Stack

When pairing an engagement ring with a wedding band, aim for intentional harmony in design. Matching metal colors helps create a unified look, while ensuring the rings sit flush keeps the stack comfortable and cohesive. If your engagement ring features a three-stone or intricate setting, a more refined band can allow the center stone to take focus. A solitaire pairs beautifully with an infinity or eternity band that will enhance overall brilliance. For personalization, consider exploring custom designs or adding an engraving to ensure your stack feels uniquely yours and symbolizes your partnership with thoughtful craftsmanship.

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